In this true modern love story, Jay and Julie live the principle that destiny is not a matter of chance but a willingness to choose who you must become to make your relationship all it can be.

Anthony Robbins

Entrepreneur, Author & Peak Performance Strategist

This is one of the most personal and enlightening books I have ever read on affairs and healing from betrayal. This book is a dialogue one couple had over a long time period and it gives the reader insight on what the processes of honesty, transparency, forgiveness and rebuilding trust are all about. This is a great book and I learned a lot from it. I recommend everyone read it.

John M. Gottman, Ph.D.

Author of the “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” and founder of The Gottman Relationship Institute

Every once in a while I come across a book that grabs my attention and stands out. Surprised by Love is riveting in that it reads like a classic novel, yet is a true story told with boldness and compassion. It is invaluable and the authors write from the heart. It is a must read for every couple who want to be happy and for every marital therapist who works with couples.

Cloe Madanes

World renowned teacher/author and founder of Strategic Marital Therapy

Surprised by Love is tangible proof that love is stronger than betrayal or even the death of a marriage. It’s the amazing story of how a woman’s fierce and unconditional love and a man’s willingness to evolve restored their broken marriage and helped them create spiritual and emotional healing in the process. Jay and Julie’s story provides not only hope for every couple but marriage truths that are truly revelational.

Richard Exley, D.D, Pastor

Author of “Intimate Moments for Couples”

I have long been aware of the work of Dr. Jay Ferraro. Now he goes far beyond new ideas and innovative approaches to help transform executives and their teams, as he shines a light on one of the most tragic and damaging aspects of our modern society. Bravely, he and his wife tell the truth about infidelity – their own story of coping with and overcoming it. If you’re investing your life in a relationship, you should at least invest a few hours in reading this amazing book so you can get a road map and avoid the pitfalls.

Jim Stovall

Author, The Ultimate Gift

Wow! What a story. Jay and Julie have written an important book that will help and heal many couples. Their willingness to be transparent and expose it ALL, though difficult to read at times, is a gift for those who have suffered through the betrayal of an affair and those who want to understand it.

Arielle Ford

Best selling author of “Soulmate Secret”